The first thing you can do to make sure you get the best reading possible is to relax and have an open mind!
Secondly, while it's important not to give a medium too much information, it's also important to participate by validating whether you can understand or identify with what Kate relates to you. Someone in Spirit you don't even know may see your reading as an opportunity to come through! Fequently, these messages are meant for someone you will come into contact with, but if you aren't recognizing anything about what's coming, it may be time to redirect and ask for your loved ones to come through. Answering Kate's simple questions truthfully will help you connect with those you came to hear from.
While you may have hopes that a certain person may come through, there is no guarantee that any specific person will want to speak or that they will say anything specific. If your Dad doesn't want to discuss a specific topic, there is no way to force him do so. Those in Spirit have learned much since their passing, and they may have a lot to tell you even if their agenda is different than yours. Usually, their messages reflect growth, wisdom and, almost without exception, love.
Thirdly, jump in and ask questions! Your participation is a key ingredient of a good reading.
Fourth, please don't play "stump the medium." It is a waste of your money and a lost opportunity for an incredible experience.
